I cut this story from "Tightrope" but I felt it was too important not to share. I had stopped and checked this particular violent offender on numerous occasions. He was a known pimp, drug trafficker, and had been unlawfully armed with a loaded handgun before, found by me, in fact. But that’s not what this story is about. It was a regular dayshift patrol when I decided to check if he had any outstanding warrants. I told my dispatcher I was going to stop and talk to him. I gave

Have You Ever Believed a Story That Wasn’t True? I have and it made me question how we decide who gets credit, recognition, and statues in life. Last week, I spent five unforgettable days in New York City. On a tour through Central Park, we stopped at the statue of Balto, the famous sled dog. Like many, I knew the popular story: Balto led the final leg of the 1925 serum run to Nome, Alaska, saving countless children from diphtheria. Movies were made. Statues erected. History

This story was cut from my book Tightrope. With so many experiences I had to find a way to shorten the book (editor advice). But it’s important enough that I wanted to share it here. Over the course of my policing career, I investigated a number of stalking cases. In most of them, it was men stalking women after a relationship ended. Sometimes the couples had been married, sometimes they hadn’t. But the pattern was always the same: one person refused to accept that the relati

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